tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-80323760692186245422024-02-02T14:37:16.552-05:00My Wandering MindThe amblings of a wandering mind. The subject is determined by where that mind has gone just prior to opening up this page.Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.comBlogger368125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-6280212345936434112023-10-14T14:21:00.001-04:002023-10-14T14:21:25.652-04:00THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE
GBE #8
The best day of my life was the day I gave birth to my first child. She was a difficult pregnancy, but an amazingly easy birth. ONE pain and there she was.
Oh wait, the best day in my life was when I gave life to my second child, my son. The first (and only, it turns out) boy in my side of the family. Lots of boys on Dad’s side.
Or maybe it was when I met and very shortly after fell in love with Mike. My soul mate, 11 years my senior and nothing like any man I had been with before. He was, however, very much like my Dad. Dad passed at age 56 and I met Mike a few years later. I always wished they had known each other and now, well, I suspect they do. Heaven, I’m sure, is the great reunion spot.
Ya know, it was the best day in my life when we married. I inherited his kids.
That was pretty cool. Definitely the best day.
Then again, the best day in my life happened when our first grandchild was born, and again when the second, third, fourth, fifth, sixth, seventh and the eighth came along! OH and my daughter inherited 2 girls with her second marriage, our first granddaughter and bonus granddaughter have given us 3 great granddaughters, best days in my life.
It was most assuredly the best day in my life when we finely got Momma moved to her new apartment 2 miles from our house.
That was a dream, long time dreamed, come true.
I think, and certainly at that time, each new fur baby adoption or actual birth, created the best day of my life. Now in retirement and alone, they are my life. One needing lots of special care and one just here to love me. Pup is elderly and needy, but doesn’t like me because I do all the needy stuff, sigh. Cat loves me and makes me laugh. Cat also checks on pup from time to time, I’m convinced he’s looking for his heartbeat. Who knows?
I realize right now, right here…I have had far more BEST days than WORSE days and that this not-so-perfect life I’m living now, is still likely to hold at least ONE more BEST day before my time is up.
Hope you're having a BEST day, right now.Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-1017967857116199182023-09-11T11:40:00.001-04:002023-09-11T11:40:11.408-04:00
GBE#5 Beauty is so BIG!
Yes, I admire many things because they are pleasing to my eye. Or pleasing to my heart. Or pleasing to my ear.
But to my MIND, BEAUTY is much deeper. It is the soul of any living thing that is not just existing, but living to spread joy. Living to find and share love. Living to make someone or something else in our shared world better.
Beauty of the soul is just there. I don't think we necessarily develop it or learn it. I think we CAN, but mostly I think it is inherent. It is built into the actual cells of our being. Goodness brings beauty every time. Kindness is the key to beauty.
One may be physically drop over, drop your pants, perfectly gorgeous and still not be a beauty. If the essence of their soul is centered on themselves or their own beauty or feelings of self-importance, beauty cannot thrive. It cannot grow. It cannot exist.
Some incredibly kind, generous, giving people are also blessed with amazingly good physical features that make them what we refer to as "beautiful on the inside as well as the outside" and I know a lot of those as do you most likely.
But I know far more normal, average looking folks who are so kind, loving, selfless and good natured that most everyone considers them the most beautiful people they know. I concur.
Have your say about beauty and I’ll enjoy reading it, but believe me, I'll never see BEAUTY as an outward attribute when standing alone.
Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-63868596959566815982023-09-09T08:05:00.000-04:002023-09-09T08:05:21.454-04:00<b></b>GBE#4 <i>WHAT PROMPTED ME TO JOIN THIS GROUP</i>
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I didn't hesitate to sign up the minute I saw the offer. The Admins are experienced and I felt right at home from the get go!
I've missed the blogging world. I have continued to write, but posted very few here on my blog page because I was writing most of it for my own brain dump. I shared a few articles on my page, but very few.
I am really comfortable here. Really love that both members and non can click on and read my thoughts.
I love having a prompt and then seeing how many different takes there will be on each one.
I feel today like I have stepped back a bit into a life I loved. The blogging world gave me an anchor. I learned from reading and from others offering honest critisisms on my style, my wording...whatever.
We can learn so much by reading each others work and the comments on our own work. Not to mention those who care enough to send ims with their critiques.
So, I'm here because I feel like I belong here and that isn't true of many places in my life now. I still feel like a writer. I still feel it cleans my brain of rants and raves and even happy thoughts that just linger and clog my creativity. Writing releases my mind to be open and involved again.
Thank you for giving us this platform again.
Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-28691937573418523882023-08-26T20:08:00.007-04:002023-09-08T16:43:07.729-04:00 GBE #3. letter to 13 year old Jo
<b>Dear Jo, 1963 edition:
I want you to remember just a few things as you move forward to highschool.
1) you really are enough, just as you are.
2) life will never be fair, but you must be.
3) tough times create tough girls.
4) live all your moments, good and bad in faith.
That is it. If you live in those guidelines, you will be all you were made to be and no one can be more than that.b>Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-14858596617683222192023-08-18T12:09:00.001-04:002023-09-08T16:45:42.905-04:00 TIME GBE#2 TIME.
My one commodity of which i have plenty is, time.
I am not a busy person nor to I want to be. when I have a project to do, I like having my own time line, an hour here and there or maybe a day or two of buckling down and gettin' 'er done. Either way, it's entirely up to me.
Retirement took me awhile to get used to. I had always been a person who just had ti fill every weekend with chores that I didn't have time for during the work week. I'm not her anymore.
I enjoy doing what I'm capable of doing to keep the homestead in good repair and clean. I very much enjoy doing so at my leisure because I live in Florida, east coast, and it's very hot here from April through November usually. so working slowly and taking a lot of breaks is necessary and makes the chore go better.
Having explained allof that...I also love lounging. I'm a crossword, find a word, make a word, puzzle building computer girl. Computer games can fill my whole day and I'm good with that, sometimes.
I also enjoy Bingo, cards with my tribe and an occassional dinner out with the ladies ofour community and friends.
Time, I have plenty and it is one of the things I am most grateful to have, I don't have to work,not yet anyway. It could happen if prices donkt soon begin to level out.<b></b><b></b>Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-6455013601928416432023-08-13T12:54:00.001-04:002023-08-13T12:54:40.070-04:00Alone and lost in my lossI lost my husband of 40 years in May of 2022. After 8 weeks of hospitalization and an emotional roller coaster of good news, not much improvement, looking good again...his kidneys finally just stopped and he began the process of leaving us with relief and peace. I could see that in his face. Felt it in the firmness with which he held my hand. When he could speak, he was loving and asking me to please let him go. I promised to do so when he was called home. Told him we would all be ok and would look after each other. Told him he could go in peace, because his work here was done. Told him I would miss him until we joined hands again. Hoping beyond measure that it would be sooner rather than later.
I meant every word. I believed we would be okay, the kids, the grands and myself.
None of us will ever really be okay again. His loss was much bigger than I allowed myself to believe. Bigger than any of us realized until it was real.
The result of all of this is that I now want to pull back from everyone I love because I don't want to cause anyone else this kind of empty existence. This kind of pain. No purpose because my purpose is gone. No future because there is nothing left that I can do. The things I'd like to do, I can't possibly afford. The things I could do, I have no interest in really.
So I fill my time by doing the household chores that we used to share, inside and out. I have to pay someone to do the things I'm not physically capable of doing. I spend a few hours three times a week with my Gal pals, my tribe, playing cards and bingo. I have a cat and a dog that take up a good deal of time. The cat, good and fun time and he is my joy. The dog, senior with multiple special needs and I am not one of his needs. He hates human touch unless he is in a strange place, not our home, then he loves me to hold him and stroke him. Otherwise, he uses all his strenth to push and pull and try to escape my hold on him. I'm always afraid I'll lose my grip and he will fall to his death. Seriously, I am very aware of this possibility because he wiggles and contorts and if he did fall, it would likely cause him to break his neck. He is only 6# of Chihauhua, but he's as strong as any labrador when he needs to escape. So far, 3 years of this,we are both still ok. I love the little mess, but he prefers being alone.
This is far from the life I ever wanted or imagined. I hope every day that I dont have to be here many more. I'm ready to go Home and be with my love, my family and friends that have gone before. Life here is now far too empty for me. I know my departure date is set, I'm just hoping it isn't a long way down the road.
I am a strong believer and therefore, feel I must have some pupose here that I have not fulfilled. I pray to see that purpose sooner than later so that I may get busy completing my assignment.Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com22tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-76210229016100633772022-10-15T19:24:00.000-04:002022-10-15T19:24:45.285-04:00GRIEF at 5 monthsToday is the five month mark since my husband of 40 years passed and I have been left to learn.
Learn what, you might ask.
Who I am, now.
What I am here to finish.
Why I am so lost.
Where I should be heading and choices to be made.
I'm quite unsure who I am. I am a mother, but my children are grown and living hours away so not much mothering is needed or apparently wanted. However, I can and I am mothering my furbabies. So I've learned I can still do that, although alone is different, its doable. ✔
I believe we stay in this life until we finish our tasks. What mine might be is somewhat of a mystery to me, but I am willing to keep looking for things. It might be a thing or a long list or anything in between. I suppose I will be directed in any case. So I pray I will heed the call.✔️
The feeling of being lost is not new to me, but it is different this time. I was very lost for a short time after we lost Momma. I don't know where or how to find myself. I don't know where to begin. I am comfortable in this home. I am happy in my close friends and aquaintances here in Holiday Village. I belong here, I know. It's more a matter of where in this spot do I fit? I did invite a small group to dinner one time and it was a lot of laughs and a great meal. Yet no one has extended another invitation. I am really not sure at all what i can do to fix this except be patient and keep attending group events, which I have been doing. Time, I suppose.✔
Now where my life goes from here is my biggest question. Some days I just want to be home with the furkids and not even think about anything or anyone else. Then I feel very content, however, I dont want that to be my life. Thats why I attend any group gathering that I can and I enjoy doing that, but always wonder if I fit there anymore. Always. ✔
Last on my list is that my friend, adopted sister, is in another state and ill. She is with her kids and their kids and their kids and her husband is there now, too. I can't go for two reasons.
My furkids need to be cared for and that isn't cheap and I am going to spend Thanksgiving with my kids and their kids and I will be paying for furbaby care for that trip. So financially speaking, I can only do one trip and it has to be my kids. We will keep in touch by phone and she knows I love her and am with her in spirit and heart.✔
All in all, I am doing okay, day to day. I get through each day with a fair share of laughter and still tears, at some point. Tears for missing my partner and hugger. Every day I have to say "my" something instead of "our" something. Small thing, I suppose, but still painful. "My" was never in the plans.✔
Pictures...something I am so thankful to have.✔Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-6850175402373562072022-09-11T11:47:00.000-04:002022-09-11T11:47:17.915-04:00Grief at 4 months…My life changed on May 15, 2022 in every conceivable way. My husband, life mate, partner in everything went home to be with our Lord. Eight weeks prior I had days that I feared I was losing him and then days I thought I'd be bringing him home. Never sure under what conditions that homecoming would occur, but still optimistic. Mostly I prayed for His will be done and for us to have the strength and wisdom to adjust to whatever that looked like. I never believed, and still dont, that I should pray for his healing. I believe the book of life is already completed and all things happen as He means for them to happen. So I ask for strength and wisdom and ability to accept.
I received a most peaceful feeling for days after he left me; wrapped in the Grace of God, no doubt.
I was relieved that his pain was over. That he was at peace and surrounded by so many lost loved ones that we shared. I was jealous. I do not believe I get to choose my last day on earth, but to be honest, I did tell God, "my bags are packed and I'm ready when you call me."
I am sitting here now, wondering why I am still here. Really! I mean, my reason for everything I did for the last 40 years, besides being Momma's back-up for anything she needed, is gone. Yes, I have amazing kids and friends and my furbabies, but they have all survived our loss and basically are doing okay. Their lives have not changed except they miss him. They always will, as I will. As I still, 8 years later, miss Momma.
They are not, however, living alone. Every day, alone at days begining and ending. People in between to pass time. To laugh with and be normal. That is great, really great. These people are my saving graces. Nothing in my daily life is really right anymore. It's all very different and though not horrible, it's not right. I'm not right. I'm unstable, at best. I feel like my only comfort is found alone at what is now, "my" home. Comfort, but also a deep sense of loss. Loss of the life I loved. The "key" to that life, it seems, wasn't the community, the friends, the weather...we thought it was. The "key" was "US" and this "house" which we made our own. That's what made my life so good. That is gone. It's now my house and my life. I have to find a way for all of this to be right, to be normal.
I adopted a kitten, just short of a year old, he turned one in August. I still have special needs, psychotic Beary who doesnt like me particularly, but does need the care I give him. They are very good for me and I'm very happy to have them in my home. I would be lost without my furbabies, for sure. So thank you Lord for leading me to those decisions at the time. I love my babies.
My future? I only know that I will do what needs to be done, one way or the other. I will continue to move forward, as best I can and I will continue to try to make Mike proud of my progress moving on with what time I have left.
I will continue to try to be a kinder person every day. I will try to be less self-concerned and more about those I might be able to help in some way. That is pretty much where I am four months into my grieving process.
Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com11tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-33565327922659653122019-07-12T14:47:00.002-04:002019-07-12T14:47:11.139-04:00I have been on this earth 69 1/2 yrs. and I've finally decided the following:<br />
I love my body.<br />
Yes, it's softer than it was, but my arms still hug my loved ones with the same warmth and satisfaction as when I didn't have so many true loved ones.<br />
My legs are dimply and wrinkly, but I can still walk where I want to be.<br />
My face looks like the map of Greece, but it's me and in that face I see my momma and a bit of my dad. I see the pain I've survived in the wrinkles and the love I've known in the laugh lines. My face shows my life has not been easy, but I'm here and I like who I've grown to be.<br />
My stomach is not hard and my abs have gone into retirement. That tummy stretched out to 52" to house my babies and somehow went back to semi-acceptable size now 50 years later. I'm ok with that.<br />
My feet are healthy and anxious to do my biding.<br />
My eyes have never been perfect, but post-cataract surgery, 20/20 distance and reading glasses power 2 are the best I've ever had! I SEE beauty all around. I also see evil. I know the difference.<br />
I am blessed to be half way through my 70th year and still,<br />
of relatively sound mind.<br />
That last one may be debatable, I'll give you that one.<br />
Age is a number. Mine is big and therefore, my herstory is full of having lived. It's a wonderful thing.Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-88900964517503494932019-04-29T10:28:00.001-04:002019-07-12T14:52:19.184-04:00There was a time, not long ago, that I thought I was a nice person. I thought of others before myself. I knew I was a giver and a fixer, by nature. It was always difficult for me to be the receiver, even though I was in need and did accept help from time to time. It was never easy, appreciated, but not comfortable. Somehow, those years formed a strong need to help when and where I could and allow the recipient to feel good about letting me do so.<br />
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Im not that person now. I'm sorry that I lost her. She was loved and she had friends, lots of them. There were very few around her that didn't speak kindly of her.<br />
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That isn't true now. The person I've become is not concerned with being nice.<br />
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I do have wonderful friends. People I love and care about and enjoy. But I also have people around me now that don't like me. That call me bossy, mean and accuse me of ruining everything since I moved here. Other people thank me for trying to improve and listen to the membership. Thank me for thinking outside the box. I understand that's life when you're in a leadership role. What I don't understand is gossiping behind one's back and smiling to one's face. The membership did grow under my leadership because I had much help from members. People just waiting to be included, invited to assist or take charge of something.<br />
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Having said all of that, I finally resigned and now see, hear and feel a very heavy weight from those who cheered my leaving the volunteer position that they told me no one wanted. I know why now. It's very hard to be disliked, disrespected and to continue to try to mend the split community. Reaching out and not trusting the hand reaching back. Knowing those relationships are superficial. Knowing I am not the nice and honest to a fault person that I used to be. I don't belong anywhere any more. I don't even know if I like me anymore. I wonder how my friends have been able to embrace me. I wonder why they would want to do that.<br />
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Bullying. I am talking about adult bullying from behind your back. While you think it's a few people, with which you can deal, you learn they've spread their opinion of you as fact to many others. Those others believe them. They don't know. Yep, it's jr high school at the retirement village and I'm the target 🎯. <br />
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">“I (State your name), do solemnly swear that I will support and defend the Constitution of the United States against all enemies, foreign and domestic, that I will bear true faith and allegiance to the same; that I take this obligation freely, without any mental reservations or purpose of evasion; and that I will obey the orders of the President of the United States, and the Officers appointed over me according to regulations and the Uniform Code of Military Justice so help me God.”</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I know that you all still honor this oath and will until the day you die. I am humbled by that alone.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">As we walk through our lives as free Americans, it’s important to remember all who gave a portion of their lives to our country. Those who signed the blank check for their own daily freedoms to become property of the United States of America for a specified period of time. Let’s not forget that the same check included their own lives. Those we honor today did NOT give their lives, but they gave years of living free to ensure that we all could do exactly that. They were in strict control of their military branch and followed and lead others in the commands of their officers and the Commander in Chief. How do you thank someone for that?</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I suggest we begin by recognizing that sacrifice of the years given for our freedom and the families who waited for these Veterans to return, alive or not. All are worthy of our thanks and our continued respect. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">Today, I’d ask each of us to shake a hand, buy a cup of coffee, lunch, a beer or simply say thank you for your service. It isn’t much, but many of our Veterans have never personally been thanked. It’s way over due and honestly, even if they were thanked daily, would it be enough? </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I write words I choose and no one says I can’t say this or I can’t say that because each of these Veterans protected my right to speak my mind and publish those thoughts. No-one will tell me I can’t say something because the government wouldn’t approve. Because of these people the government doesn’t have to like my words. You don’t have to worry about what you say or to whom. Freedom of speech is something we take for granted, but if our military hadn’t gone to war to protect us time and time again, imagine who and what we might be as a country today. Our news certainly wouldn’t be what it is today. Thank you one and all who served, who sacrificed and who made our country stronger and safer. And continue to do that today.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">You are each special and valued to those of us who gave nothing. We are all humbled by your existence. </span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I know that some of you, most of you, were drafted into service, but you went. You served. You made us proud then and still do. You didn’t duck out of your obligation. You wore the uniform with pride and now you wear your history with the same pride and will always be a Marine, a Soldier, a Sailor, an Airman or a Guardsman.</span></div>
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<span style="font-kerning: none;">I salute you from my heart and I thank you…each of you…for your excellence and your bravery. I thank God for returning you home to your loved ones and also to us.</span></div>
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Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-4173320579173628122017-10-08T14:01:00.002-04:002017-10-09T09:35:28.404-04:00Guns~Control or Complete Freedom to Possess <span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Las Vegas...after trying to come to terms with my emotions of three (yes, three) hurricanes that hit our citizens and devastated islands we called paradise, aren't we all just overwhelmed? Emotionally and maybe physically, as well, out of gas.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">But today I am hearing and thinking about gun control, again.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">For the umpteenth time in the past few years we are talking about why we have so many more gun deaths than any other civilized country. The only difference seems to be that we have comparatively fewer restrictions and a <u>cultural love</u> of the all mighty gun. And it can be all mighty because the only defense of a gun wielder is another gun wielder. So why do we have this love of the gun? Why don't other countries? </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">For me...I was raised in a house with some guns. I was married many years ago to a hunter who owned a few guns. I never liked them. I shot a gun a couple times. I didn't like it. Having said that, I didn't care if they were in my home as long as they were safely stored and used appropriately. They were.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">Today however, I do not want one in my home and I do care if anyone who wants one can buy one legally. I do care that many people do not safely store guns in homes where toddlers and teenagers alike could, and now and then <i><u>do</u>, </i>kill themselves or siblings or friends with one which was stored unloaded and high away where they were thought to be safe. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">I have watched experiments on TV with kids of all ages "finding" a planted gun to see what they will do. Every time the kid will pick up that gun! Sometimes while saying they shouldn't touch it and they need to tell someone. They WILL pick it up. You cannot trust any child of any age to be in close proximity to a gun and not touch it.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">I would love to see limits on how many you can own. Like animals, you have to prove you have the right situation to own a bazillion animals. You'll lose them to rescues if you don't. You have to be inspected now and then for these situations and they don't kill people.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">I agree that we have a gun culture in the United States, but I'm not sure why except that the NRA created it and our hunters loved it. Guns for guns sake...collectors...sure, but really, how many are there? And how much of this culture developed because Obama was going to confiscate everyone's guns? Or so said the NRA. Again, background, training, registration.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">My boys all have guns and think I'm crazy and a flaming liberal. They are entitled to their beliefs. I am entitled to mine.</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">The biggest difference is that my wishes might save a few hundred lives in the next few years and their's will only save them having to get background checks, training courses and registration. It will not change anything else. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">I've never proposed people shouldn't be allowed to own guns. I propose that <i>some</i> people should not have guns and that often we could sort them out <i>BEFORE</i> they kill a group of innocent humans for sport or out of pure hate for someone or something they perceive.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif; font-size: large;">I don't think all shooters are mentally ill. I think many are hare filled for a variety of reasons. I think our liberal gun laws allow them to fully execute their barbaric killing sprees. Remember none of the shooters used illegally purchased guns. That is an important factor.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">So...it's a hot topic today. It's been a hot topic before. It'll likely be no topic in a few weeks because Americans have short attention spans. Congress has no interest even though two of them have been shot, seriously wounded with permanent injuries by legally </span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">obtained</span><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;"> guns in the hands of haters with no value for human life, including their own, apparently.</span></span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"><span style="font-family: "verdana" , sans-serif;">I guess I just don't understand...empathy is non-existent in much of my country. The ability to be in someone else's pain is beyond the grasp of too many Americans. It just can't always be about "me" at the cost of innocent lives. Can it?</span></span><br />
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>This is the third Mother’s Day without you. It should be easier. It should be a day of me celebrating my own motherhood. I am a very blessed mom and raised some incredible humans whom I adore and I know they love and respect me in return. We have a good relationship and I am grateful daily for that. I feel much of that is because I had such a wonderful relationship with you. They learned, perhaps, watching us. </b></span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>I will not be with my babies again this year. I will not be in Michigan where I could go to the cemetery and sit by your stone and talk. I will be here with Roomy and our friends and most likely it will again be a painful day. We are going to breakfast at one of favorite ocean eateries, Crabby Joe's, with a group of friends. Few of our friends here have their children nearby. We are not the oddballs here, by any definition. We are living among our peers. My support comes from those who have been without longer than I have. They assure me it gets less odd. Less painful is what I’m hoping for. I am not expecting that for many years, I still miss you and can’t imagine that ever going away.</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>I do want you to know, I am sure you do, that I feel so blessed to have had you holding me up for nearly 65 years of my life. I know what a gift that was. Losing Dad at such a young age was so difficult, but we had each other from that day. Not the same. But something. I’m not feeling sorry for myself because my parents are both gone. I’m feeling loved because I had them. These particular parents were chosen for me. I am me because they raised me. That’s what I am thinking now. That’s how I deal. Gratitude filtered with heartache. Such great love is paid for with great sorrow. I would change nothing, except maybe to have been able to share Florida with you.</b></span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>The family lunches on the deck are history. The Sunday’s with you, Roomy and I just hanging out are history. They are both wonderful memories and make me smile to recall. I’ll be doing that Sunday. Maybe it’s time to change the guest list, but maybe host that cook-out lunch again. </b></span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;"><b>Anyway Momma, just wanted you to know that I still love you with all that I am and that I am still missing you every minute of my life. Florida would have made you so happy and I think of that every morning while my coffee is brewing, wishing I was brewing two cups. Happy Heavenly Mother’s Day and please give Dad a hug for me. ~ Jo</b></span></span></div>
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We've been in this little piece of Paradise now for 15 months.<div>
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Our life here is slow and easy most days. We have flowers and new palm trees to care for, well, Roomy does most of that. We have a few activities that we enjoy and are looking for new ones to start here with our newish friends and neighbors. It's just a good life.</div>
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We will be in Michigan for the month of July, of course, and I am planning to attend my 50th High School Reunion. Not sure why we are doing this 40 years early, but okay. I'll play along.</div>
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I have also started doing the Newsletter for the Community here and think it will help in a few different ways. One way is that I am meeting and getting to know more people because I am trying to collect info to report. The other is that because it's a monthly publication, maybe more people will want to joint in or even suggest new or different activities. Communication hasn't been good here and lots of times things are posted in the mail collection area and that's it. The sign out front will say what is coming this week, but no details, of course. So for new people it's hard to know what some things involve and whether or not inexperience is a problem or whether late joiners would be welcome. So I'm working to clear things up a bit and hoping to encourage more participation next year.</div>
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No remodeling plans for this year! Just enjoying what we have and where we are.</div>
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Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-18223474577313944832017-01-19T12:38:00.000-05:002017-01-20T14:42:20.625-05:00 Serenity ~ Peace<span style="font-size: large;">Is the world different today? Is it just me? Does accepting facts comes harder as you age or easier? Letting things go isn't impossible. I've been doing for many years. The Serenity Prayer is my mantra. I live it daily, say it multiple times some days. I DO attempt to change the things I can. I DO accept the things I cannot change and I always ask for wisdom to know the difference. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Maybe that last part is my hangup right now. Maybe I still think I can change my world. Not the entire thing, but my part of it? Maybe I still believe if I am kinder, less intrusive and more inclusive and make real effort to help someone through something, it will change the world. It will make a difference. Maybe I'm right. Maybe not. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">On a daily basis I still try to show kindness where I can. I try to lend a hand where I see or know of a need. I donate to causes I believe need my money to do good for our world. All these are things that show you part of who I am. The other parts of me are not so peaceful and not so tolerant and not so kind. Those parts of me are afraid and I am almost cowering away from what might be my reality. Our future is so much in question right now and I sincerely need peace in my heart. I also pray for that. </span></div>
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Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-19909155694517477472017-01-01T16:44:00.001-05:002017-01-01T16:44:41.181-05:00New Year 2017<span style="font-size: large;">It's fun to wonder what a new year might bring. It's also scary to realize as we age that not everything another trip around the sun brings is going to be awesome. Some things are better left unknown and even unexplored mentally.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Will we be better off on this day next year? Will we be just as healthy? Will we be together? Which of our friends will still be considered part of our life, not just part of our history? Who will we meet this year that will become irreplaceable in our lives?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">A new President with a Congress of his party, well, kind of the same party. Not giving DJT a pass on being a Republican, exactly. Most of his ideas are just basically thoughts with no plan to actually implement, but that could change. Or so I am told by his supporters. I can't disagree because his very platform has changed considerably both during and post campaign. Since the election he has softened or adjusted his priorities. Much more middle of the road than the ideas that got the MAGA (make America great again) members excited and drew their votes. But no one seems to care because they won. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Jo</span>Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-22129941588531659132016-12-27T19:00:00.002-05:002020-08-02T13:12:14.180-04:00AS THIS YEAR DRAWS TO A CLOSE…<div style="font-family: Helvetica; line-height: normal;">
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">We have been in this house a year and 3 weeks. Wow. How is that possible? </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Within a few months we realized although the house was perfect and we did love it, it was not the neighborhood we needed. We needed friends. We had neighbors who spoke and waved,, but weren't interested in being more. No socialization with one exception. A single gal with two adorable pups who became and remain our Florida family. So glad we met and even gladder that we are still friends and within walking distance yet.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Let me say here that I do not recommend moving twice in one year. It’s not fun. It’s not exciting. It’s not a new adventure. It is, however, exhausting and downsizing a THIRD time in a year is emotionally more than one should attempt. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">We got rid of nearly everything from the kitchen and baths that wasn’t going to be needed. Sorted towels by matching ability to new house and tossed or gave away the rest. Tossed, sold or donated about four comforters with matching sheets etc because I didn’t want to use the limited storage for such things which could be replaced, if needed later. Kitchen utensils…from Momma’s house and ours were divided and cut to what I thought was bare essentials. Knick Knacks were only moved if they held sentimental value to me. Momma was gone just two months and some things could not be left or given. Some things were needed even if they were not to leave a box once the move was completed. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Downsizing again 8 months later…really tough. Lots of tears. The couches both had to go. Wouldn't work here. The recliners, wouldn’t work here. One, Momma’s recliner was coming and her wooden rockers, two, were coming. We bought a new couch and chair for this living room.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Tables…we had Momma’s on the porch and ours in the dining room. Momma’s wouldn't fit here, we needed round. Ours came. Two beds came, Momma’s stayed in the house for new owners daughter. This kind of made me happy and sad all at once. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Tossing, donating until we had everything here that we needed and what we couldn’t easily store, eventually, got donated, sold or tossed. It simply had to be done. It was draining. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Other than the couch and chair, we bought virtually no furniture for this house until I figured out a way to fit in some shelves for photo albums. I cannot let go of those.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">So here we are a year later…in this year we have made new friends and joined many social activities here at the park. We have some truly lovely people around us and we love this house. We put in a brand new kitchen and guest bath and new flooring in the guest room, bath and kitchen. We would still like to put new flooring in the living and bedroom, but nothing urgent.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">We added on to our very small back porch and it is now a beautiful 12 x 20 and we practically live out here. We added vinyl windows so the cooler temps don’t send us inside anymore. It’s the best thing we could possibly have done here. This is our forever home, we hope.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">We have made two trips back to Michigan this year. We will be spending July there each year as long as we are able to do so. We have a small travel trailer that we store and then park at Holiday Shores. We have time to visit with everyone who wants to make time for us and all the family did so this year; we hope they will again next year. It’s the perfect set up for us and Miggy.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">(Oh, Miggy…our beloved Jake, the rat terrier of our hearts for 15.5 years, passed away in September and we adopted a Chihuahua/rat terrier from the humane society. He chose us right away and has held our hearts every since. Miguel Jose Heroux turned three, we think, on Sept 30 this year and we are so very blessed with this crazy puppy love.)</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">And while all of this seems overwhelming…okay, it kind of was…it was all worth it. We had our typical Florida house, now we have our forever house, maybe. One never knows what He has in mind for one’s future so I’m keeping my options open.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Happy New Year all. Peace and love to all and my dear Lord, please keep a hand on our new President’s mouth and a whisper in his ear from time to time. Guide him to a most successful term, for all of our sakes.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Annually I write something about the brave, selfless women and men who enlisted, or were drafted into, the military and then served their time for us. For us to be who we want to be, here in this country of diversity. For us who have done nothing to protect our shores from invasion or attack.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I write these articles because it is what I am able to do to show, not only how much I appreciate their time, service, their dedication and sacrifice, but also to remind others to show respect. Reminding my fellow Americans to do something that makes a Vet's life a little better or easier. Remind us all to say the thank you that might stay inside our head when seeing a Veteran going about their everyday life. Maybe go ahead and buy that cup of coffee or lunch or dinner, if you have the means to do so. Maybe just walk a few steps out of your way and extend your hand. A smile and mouthing the words "thank you" from a distance, yeah, that works, too.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I think about how much these Vets have given us and how honored they all say they were to be part of their military arm and how much better their branch is than the other branches and I am humbled. Always humbled. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Do you understand that they have given themselves, body and soul, to our government for the service years? Do you know that once a soldier, sailor, marine, coast guard or air force, ALWAYS being that? It is a life long membership. They deserve to never be in need again. They deserve medical care, the best available, for life. They deserve to never go hungry or homeless. We, American citizenry, have to do better. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Maybe President-Elect Trump will be able to make strides in this area. Maybe he will do what we've mostly wanted and mostly failed to provide. I pray for that.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So my friends, my enemies and you strangers out there...please take some time today and beyond to do what you personally can do to show respect, gratitude and honor to the women and men who have served you so proudly and so honorably. We cannot hope to actually equal what they've given us.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">May this day find all Veterans a show of support and gratitude for all you have given and continue to contribute to America, our country owes you so much more than we are giving. I hope this continues to get better as we focus on your needs.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Submitted with my highest respect and most humble gratitude,</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">Jo</span>Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-65207139425880703742016-11-10T15:01:00.001-05:002016-11-10T15:01:38.890-05:00It's Over~Day 2 of President-elect Trump<span style="font-size: large;">The election is over. The decision of America is in. Well, the decision of the populous was Hillary, by 300,000 votes, but the electoral, the legal decision is Donald J. Trump by a large margin. Looking at the map, it's very, very red with blue tiny accents. Done deal. It does again open the door to how we make the electoral college really reflect the voters choice. Or possibly amending the constitution to dissolve this antiquated method of vote counting. It won't be the first time in recent history that much talk persists and likely little action will follow. We are a slow country to change anything constitutionally connected. That's a good thing, I believe.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As a pantsuit supporter I was dismayed and maybe more shocked to see all the Red. I was not happy. I was, and remain, concerned about our national security and our image around the world. The future is never obvious, even when we think it is, but in this case, it's just a blur. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Will President Trump be the man who spoke so perfectly giving his acceptance speech? Will he be the focused and dedicated man the office requires? Will he see that working with Congress is not always easy, but necessary? Will he understand being President isn't a Dictatorship? Will he use those great negotiating skills he's bragged about to get things done or will he try to bully his way through? Will the almost humble man who met with President Obama today, be our new President?</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So many more questions. No answers. Only time will tell.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I want him to do well. I want him to govern with dignity, which I now have seen he can show. I want him to lead this country forward not backward. I want better healthcare for all. I want college that's affordable to all who work hard and want it. I want a strong military and I want great support from our generals from whom Trump can learn. I want our country to be safe for immigrants, for LGBT, for blacks, for hispanics and for everyone! I pray this man will embrace these things and do all he is capable of to achieve these goals. I also want financial balance. I believe he can achieve this, if he applies himself. I hope he does.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">So I am convinced today, as I am supporting with all my power of prayer, our new President, that his need to succeed and his need to be the best, he will be a good and maybe even a great, the greatest President we've ever had. In his own mind, if not the world. I'm hoping it's the world, though.</span><br />
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<br />Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-76012100593659261372016-11-10T13:07:00.002-05:002016-11-11T19:02:50.260-05:00MY FAVORITE VETERAN 2016<span style="font-size: large;">Hi Baby Boy,</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Yep still. Never gonna change. I gave you life and you are always going to be my baby boy. I couldn't be prouder to say so. You are a man most mothers would never stop talking about, lucky for you I am just such a mom. I'm sure my friends all think you probably have a halo, you don't, but it's okay if they think you do.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">This day is always so very special for me for so many reasons and this year as the past two years, I am a bit weepy remembering how much Grama talked about you and worried about you while you were serving. Remembering the trip she and I made to watch you graduate on this very day in 1970. Orlando felt so far away until we arrived and saw that taller, older, so mature young man walk toward us, unrecognized by us, I will add here. When you smiled and we knew you, it was awe inspiring. Unbelievable. Our mutual pride had to be visible. That kid we had sent off two months earlier was indeed a man. I can still see you sitting with us over lunch and pressing the crease in your uniform pants as you spoke. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">A man well on his way to becoming a motivated and capable man of honor.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Today, I am so thankful your time in service wasn't more traumatic than it was. And it was traumatic enough. Your time was filled also with some exciting travel and experiences that you would likely never have had, otherwise. Who gets to hang out in Japan for a year? Who gets to visit Hawaii on the government's dime? I'm grateful you had some good experiences and even more grateful that your "Gulf" time wasn't worse. </span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I am so proud of you today and I am still so thankful that you served your country with such honor. I love you.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The Navy part of your history is such a huge part of your today and I can't thank them or you enough.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Walk tall and walk proudly, my handsome son, with all the gratitude I possess. I am truly a proud Navy Mom.</span><br />
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😍Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-35377388748182852752016-09-08T22:05:00.002-04:002016-09-08T22:05:59.072-04:00Momma's 2nd Angelversary<span style="font-size: large;">Two years ago, I said goodnight to Momma as she headed down the hall to bed. I told her I loved her and I'd see her in the morning. She replied in kind. Our final goodnight, love you, see you in the morning.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">I, nor she, had any idea.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">For two years I've wondered how do I do this? Who am I now? It's all about me.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">It used to be all about her.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">And then...</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;">My life changed beyond my wildest imagination since that night. We've lost our teen-aged furbabies. Sadie at 13 passed three months after Momma. Jake at 15 passed 8 months later.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We moved from Michigan to Florida and then moved again 11 months later.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">We adopted an adorable little guy from the Humane Society, Miggy a few days after Jake died.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;"> MIGGY</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">So many changes and so much adjustment. Roomy and I are strong. We are happily settled now and this retirement community is our home. Likely, our last home. The friends we have here are snowbirds, for the most part, but we have one friend from the sub and a couple from our street that stay year round with us. Good friends are a treasure.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">Going to bed tonight will be sad. No question. I will stay up past 2, which is when she passed in my arms and next to my heart. I seldom go to bed before 1:30, which is when I retired that night, but not tonight and not very often since.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">One thing I now know to be true. All the firsts of the first year of grief are unbelievably difficult. The second year those days are even more difficult because life did go on without her. Life changed and the good days outnumbered the weeping days, but "those" days are reminders of the finality of it all. Realism sets in. It really is like this now. It will always be like this now. She lives in my heart now. She lives in the choices I make. The life I choose. The love I share. She lives in all those things, all those things she taught me or showed me. I am my mother's daughter is so many ways.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">As long as I am walking this earth, I will miss her every day. I hope soon to miss her with more giggles and fewer tears.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">The greatest of love breeds the greatest of grief.</span><br />
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<br />Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-49668671342029869852016-09-02T16:03:00.001-04:002016-09-10T20:05:46.248-04:00It's All About Respect<span style="font-size: large;">The football player, not standing or the Olympic athlete not putting her hand to her heart during the playing of the National Anthem is a topic of discussion for several reasons.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">1) People judge other people by their own standards.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">2) People are raised in different environments with different moral codes and different standards of conduct.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">3) The Flag is a symbol. The Anthem is a symbol. Not everyone views either as sacred. Not every American feels patriotism is measurable and certainly not by your conduct around these two symbols. Some feel your conduct is paramount. Most feel it <i>strongly </i>on either side.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Thinking it all comes down to respect. More than freedom, more than propriety, even more than tradition, respect.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Don't you notice in our country that respect is evaporating? Once respect was given to all until or unless they caused it to be withdrawn. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">It was taught to us as children that respect was <i>given</i> to elders, people in authority and all uniformed personnel. It included police, teachers, ministers of all faiths, neighbors, parents, family, veterans, active service personnel and pretty much to everyone who had not dishonored that respect. Do you remember those days? Those talks from your parents or grandparents? Do you remember being told to address people as Mr., Mrs, Miss or ma'am or sir?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Do you remember, "Do unto others...?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Were you taught, "Please, thank you and may I?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">How about, "Excuse me?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Did you ever hear, "Do not interrupt, wait until ___ is done talking, please?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Now all I hear is that respect is earned! It's not a gift given freely. It's what you receive when you give it. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Really? Because if I can only give it to those from whom I have received it, how does it start?</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The Flag has a code. If you haven't read it, I suggest you do.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">You can find it here:</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/4/8" target="_blank">https://www.law.cornell.edu/uscode/text/4/8</a></span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">It states among it's list that one's hand should cover one's heart during the raising or lowering of the flag. This is what was happening at the Olympics as the Anthem was being played and the hand over the heart is appropriate. Many people don't know this. They should.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Second on my subject list is the standing for the National Anthem.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">No question in my mind here. It is to be done, if physically possible. Not only standing, but standing straight and tall and respectfully, with your hand over your heart. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Okay so those are the codes. These codes are meant to unify our actions and create respectful conduct towards our country and all the freedoms we enjoy. The freedoms, which are not and never have been free. They are freedoms that many have fought to preserve and many have died to protect. Our codes simply give us a way to share respect for that.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Now...why all the outrage when someone doesn't follow a code in a public forum? Because they are, in some way, representing the very country they are disrespecting. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">Yes, failure to know and follow the codes is disrespectful. It shows a lack of understanding about the country in which we thrive, or struggle. We get it very wrong sometimes and we get it very right sometimes. We are a work in progress and we will progress, these United States.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">You want to protest? That's great, but find another way. Sitting through the anthem or not placing your hand over your heart is only making you look disrespectful. It's not helping your cause. Better yet, get off your ass and DO something to affect change.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">And to those who think these symbols are just symbols and not deserving of a salute or any special treatment, I say research the National Anthem. Find out where the words Francis Scott Key wrote came from. </span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">The symbol is the flag and the anthem is the flag's symbol. That flag IS much more than a hunk of cloth clipped to a pole. It is American pride and American respect.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">I pray that one day soon we will all wake up and realize that respect is only to be given without conditions. It is to be withdrawn when one presents themselves are undeserving by actions and words of hate and evil.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: large;">It'a a hallmark of humanity to respect each other and our countries. It does make a difference. Hearing people say that they don't pledge allegiance to anything is disheartening to an old woman like me. This country has been kind to me. I have no other country to run to if this one throws me out, yet, I have no desire to find one. I am home. I am a proud American and that flag will always command my respect and my allegiance.</span><br />
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<span style="font-size: large;">and this...</span><br />
<span style="font-size: large;"><a href="https://www.facebook.com/AmericanStrong/?pnref=story" target="_blank">https://www.facebook.com/AmericanStrong/?pnref=story</a></span></div>
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Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com7tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-21347243118668043092016-07-15T11:39:00.001-04:002016-07-15T11:39:45.196-04:00A Month in MichiganWe've been in Michigan a month visiting family and friends. It's been a great vacation, weather-wise and in almost every aspect. The campground is awesome. Friends have been made with each new camper who has moved in near us and the privacy is nice. We're both really happy with this purchase and this campground. Holiday Shores personnel have been most helpful in absolutely every way possible. Five stars for them!!<br />
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We've had at least one day each week with no "dates" to allow for laundry and other errands as well as just enjoying the campground and campers. That has worked out well.<br />
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We have spent time with all of our family members except my beloved sister, who is expected this evening. They were out of state for a while, but are home and ready to socialize again! It'll be a good evening with them, no doubt.<br />
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We've seen many of our old friends and had some quality time with them with a couple more planned before we leave. Each one a treasure for their own reasons and a reason to return each year.<br />
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Being here this long has reminded us how much we love Florida. How not living IN drama of family relationships is just easier. Our life is drama free in Florida. It's really just us and friends. We still communicate with family and we still love each and every one of them, it's just that we aren't in the mix of any spats or squabbles. It's good to be loved without drama.<br />
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Retirement for us has been a real mixed bag. We have lost Momma, Sadie and Jake, the pampered furbabies, we sold our beautiful home and bought another beautiful home which we sold eight months later and have now settled in our manufactured home in a senior development, (read trailer in a trailer park) where our neighbors are mostly just like us. They are mostly in Florida with children in some other state or the west coast side of Florida. We have Friends there. Good people. Like we had here, just newer friends we are still learning about. We are happy, relatively carefree and Miggy, the new furbaby, keeps us grounded. Sometimes literally because he has separation anxiety and can only be left alone in his own house, it appears, without spazzing out. Good neighbor babysitters make an occasional day trip, possible. They come over and take him for walks and then return him to his safe place, which is our bedroom. <br />
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As we make preparations for heading to Nashville on our way back home, we are patting ourselves on the back for having the nerve to pack it all up, sell it or junk it and simply start over at ages 66 and 77. It wasn't easy, but it has been the absolute right thing for these two old hippies. Life is good in Ormond Beach and visiting the old hometown for a month in summer is has been perfection, almost.<br />
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Reservations for July 1 through July 31, 2017 have already been made! Well be back, Good Lord willing and the creek don't rise.<br />
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JoJohttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-83508237613401720762016-05-08T12:11:00.000-04:002017-05-11T13:40:04.379-04:00Mother's Day 2016Year two without Momma on a special day that was all about her. Her birthday in October and this day will always be difficult, but get through them, I will.<br />
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I remember all the years of cleaning up my little ones and heading to Grandma's for a few hours. Never considered not going. It was HER day. I would declare the day before or even the day after, as MY day. It worked because I was a daughter first. I remember with great warmth and so much love, the last several Mother's Days with her at our house for the week-end. My brother and sister-in-law drove from Indiana or Illinois for a few hours with her and my sister came for a while to celebrate our mom. She would sit and enjoy the day, outside, if possible, while we waited on her and visited with each other and her. Sometimes the kids would drop by, sometimes not. It was always Saturday Mother's Day because of brother's having to travel. Then Sunday, it would be Momma, me and Mike unless one of the boys came by, which they sometimes did. Mike pampered us both so we shared the Sunday Mother's Day.<br />
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Being a daughter was mostly just pleasure. Mostly just enjoying being there for her as she always was for me. Sometimes it was difficult to know what to do and when to step back because I wanted to help her stay independent and healthy and sometimes she just wanted to sit. I realize now, that wasn't a bad thing. We should all get to choose and if sitting is the choice, so be it. Long life isn't always such a good thing.<br />
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Moving to Florida means Mother's Day is a day of Roomy and I finding something to do that brings me peace. The ocean. This year we are in Michigan getting our little trailer set up for a monthly visit next month and once a year after. One son is at the KY Derby! One worked late nights a couple times this past week so he's likely busy making up for two evenings he wasn't home. So it's Roomy, Miggy, Cody (sons dog who is at the Derby) and me. No ocean.<br />
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So I'm sitting here with Miggy curled onto my leg, Roomy and Cody on the patio, sipping my coffee after delivered breakfast from Nick's has been shared. I'm thinking of my 47 years of motherhood and my 64 years of daughterhood. I have such a wonderful "book" of memories from both. I have these responsible adult children that I love beyond measure and you know what? My life is good. This day is tough but also very uplifting.<br />
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The quiet, the peace that now fills my days is something I used to dream of. It's a reality now and to my core, my soul, I am such a happy human that I hardly believe it myself some days.<br />
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The losses are so real today. The heartache so strong. The tears have already found release a couple of times, but at the heart of it, the blessings win. The smile returns. My heart knows peace.<br />
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Thinking of Momma, the kids, the grand babies...all with smiles and too much love. Blessings each and every one. Happy Mother's Day to us all. <br />
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<br />Johttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18285427147723972295noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8032376069218624542.post-78885006313668963962016-03-07T15:44:00.000-05:002016-03-07T15:44:46.178-05:00CLEARING MY MIND...<div style="font-family: Helvetica; line-height: normal;">
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Pro-choice means to me that we don’t legislate against the procedure which terminates a pregnancy. It means that women who become pregnant are free to legally seek advice and medical help with any complications or concerns and are free to make their own decisions in the first trimester. After month three, I’m not so firm on it still being a choice, so I draw the line there. That is my own line, my own level of acceptance for freedom to choose to carry or abort. I do not see why anyone else should have a say, except the man who impregnated said woman and only then if it is not the result of rape, whether incest or not. In those cases, no rights to the man at all. I do believe the sperm donor, if by consensual sex, has rights. Those rights being to take the child at birth and have full custody. Of course, he must also support the woman financially throughout her pregnancy and follow up care.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Pro-life…To me, this term is bandied around without the full understanding of the connotations of being pro-life. I’ve heard people choose to say “pro-birth” and that is more appropriate if one is anti-abortion, but not pro-food stamps, medical care and housing programs for the mother. The child, once born must also be provided with a home, food and medical care and we cannot expect this mother that we forced to give birth will be able to do all of that on her own. If we are pro-life we must also be pro-child welfare. The welfare of these unplanned and many unwanted children is our responsibility if we remove abortion from the mother’s choice list. Seems only logical. Then again, I believe we are our brother’s (and sister’s) keepers. We are morally responsible for helping who we are able to help when we are able to do so. It’s simply the right thing to do. Where the government fits into all of that is that the government is us. We provide the provider. We pay taxes to provide for those who cannot provide for themselves. Ultimately, those collectors must become the providers. If the welfare system is working correctly, the recipients are able to gain a skill and earn full time livable expenses in time. Michigan is a good example of how that can work. I believe the welfare system there is pretty near right. You collect and you go to school or work part time and you make a better life for yourself and your children. You work to break the welfare cycle. Pro-life means we have to try. Pro-birth means we make woman carry full term and either give up or raise the child on her own. A recipe for disaster.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">And I have a problem with the standard biblical backing and the abortion is murder argument. I have been pregnant. I didn’t “know” my child at a minute from conception nor at the two month mark, but I wanted my babies and by three months, no movement nor heartbeat detectible, I “knew” my babies. I wanted them and I loved them. That is how it is when babies are wanted, but when they aren’t planned nor wanted, I’m sure it’s quite different. I’m sure there is sorrow and sadness and doubt. I’m certain that woman who was accidentally impregnated is not loving and planning, but rather crying and fretting about her future and how and what she could possibly do for an unloved child. How her life will be changed for the next 9 months AND even if she gives the baby up, for the rest of her life. A woman never forgets an abortion. It changes everything much like having an unwanted child except without the extra person suffering for her mistakes. I don’t pretend to know how one lives with that decision, to end a healthy pregnancy, but I do know that some woman have no other reasonable choice and will have one whether legal or not. Whether her life is at risk or not, she will end the pregnancy before to her mind, it is a child. I am not judging. I am not deciding for anyone except myself. For me, it would not have been a choice. But I won’t make that choice for anyone else.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The centers are the only free medical care for many women in poor and under poverty level worker homes. Homeless women can get care from them, nowhere else. Women’s unique medical needs are met there without lectures. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">They will be sorely missed in small communities where they are the only free clinic. The only birth control providers at small or no fees. They are important. Shutting them down or defunded them is atrocious. It is inhumane. We must take care to protect our women who have no place else to go.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">It has been sanctioned by the Supreme Court. It is legal in all 50 states. No churches are being forced to provide weddings that are not welcomed in their church. It has not, nor will it ever affect the sanctity of traditional marriage. It is two of God’s creatures who fell in love being given the legal rights they deserve. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The Bible teaches man and woman. Not man and man nor woman and woman. Really? It also teaches multiple wives. We don’t recognize that as legal. We don’t stone nor otherwise kill adulterers, yet the Bible teaches that. The New Testament, the books written after Jesus has come, those books are filled with lessons of love and acceptance. Full of Jesus teaching us to love our enemies as our neighbors and if we ignore the least of mankind, we ignore God. He is in each of his children, not just the Christian-church-goers. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">God makes all kinds of humans. Lots of colors, lots of builds, lots of people from many countries where values and religion are much different than here in the U.S. But somehow, the right wingers think only the Christians are the saved and valued ones. How can that be? Why would that be any more credible than, say, the Jewish faith? Jesus was a Jew, no? He was likely not a white Jew. He was dark skinned. Many of our good Christian brothers today would shut the door in His face in a heartbeat, were he to come begging at their door. He would leave bewildered and saddened. He loved all of God’s children and He begged and commanded us to do the same. The people He made gay, <b><i>He</i></b> made gay. Period. Did He make a mistake? I don’t think so, just another of the many differences He created. Since I never chose to be straight, I have to assume my gay friends and family never chose to be gay, they may, however have chosen to try to act straight because it was easier. Since gay people seem to know from childhood that they are attracted to their own sex, I cannot believe it is anything other than God given. The lesson here is that God made us all and we all must love each other if we are going to call ourselves Christians. We can’t pull out a few things we want to believe from the Book and hang our hats on that. We have to take it all or leave it all. I think it’s fair to say that Evangelicals have for the most part, created a very judgmental arena. One where they teach their children to be careful with whom they mix. Be careful who’s fight they take on because you will be judged by the company you keep. The Lord doesn’t want you to take up with a thief, after all.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Accepting all people for who and what they are should be our goal. No need to judge. Understanding and compassion and respect are grossly missing in this world where we live today. I am so disheartened by all the Christianity I hear and see that causes pain to innocent people who also are loved by and love God. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Sick to my stomach over both. The color of your skin or your heritage is just that. Nothing more. It isn’t who you are. I am sick of hearing blacks tell us that we don’t know because we’re white and have white privilege. Okay, not arguing, but ya know what? Most of those out screaming that we don’t know, don’t know either. They have lived only in their black communities and been fed black speak about whities and crackers and how all of us hate them and want to keep them down. How about we all just take a step back and consider what is really true.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Some white people are horribly racist. Dislike all blacks for no other reason than that they are black. Hate all Asians because they are not white. Hate all Jews because, Jews. Muslims, add them to the list now, too. Yes, indeed these people exist. Sadly they also have children and teach them the same. This will continue until it becomes unacceptable by everyone. Once these people cannot function in our world and cannot gain new members, they will cease. So let’s stop giving them power. Let’s stop being afraid of them or pushing them aside. Let’s just ignore their hate and if we find they are among our circles, let’s not allow them to foster their beliefs any where near us and instead insist they respect all of God’s children or leave our group and then pray for their souls because they are doomed, they need prayer.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">But having said all of that, most of us crackers are not concerned with your skin color but do find your unintelligible speech difficult to understand. We do find the underwear showing scuffling around with attitude off putting. Why? Because it you think you are showing us how cool you are, in fact, you are just showing lack of class and lack of education. Stop that. Walk like a man. Talk like you have been educated. Act like a man. A man of color with pride. Be respectful to your friends and co-workers and show respect for elders and if you’re a man, show respect to women. Your skin color is not the issue, your behavior is. Don’t believe that? Talk to some of your own friends or family who have not fallen into the ghetto style and who have probably many less incidents with white people treating them “like scum”. </span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">This world is full of so many people who are not white. Being white is a minority if you look world-wide so if there has become a society of entitled white people, how did that happen? It’s been 50 years since the riots. In that 50 years have you taken advantage of all the rights your grandparents fought for? Have you studied hard to get scholarships for which you had preferential treatment? Did you better yourself or wallow in pity? I am not accusing, just asking. I know just as many white people, Asian people and Indian people who are not living to their potential, but they aren’t whining that they can’t. They just won’t. I’m a believer in working hard and earning your way and if you do that and are still beaten down, then you have a bitch. Then you can cry “racial card being played here” and it would be legit. And if that happens. take action because that is illegal.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">The thin blue line. Like any profession, there are are some badass police that should never have passed the academy nor should they ever have a gun. True, no question. However, for each of them there are hundreds of good dedicated officers trying to serve and protect. Trying to take care of you. Keeping your neighborhoods safe. This requires you be honest with them when questioned. This requires you tell what you saw or know. If you don’t you are the problem. If your neighborhood is frightening and you won’t tell what you saw or what you know about the problems, don’t expect any help from officers who are putting their lives on the line just to answer your call for help when you don’t answer their call for help. You want safe neighborhoods? Keep your eyes and ears open and when there is trouble HELP the police get to the root of the issues. Help them get criminals out of your neighborhood. Yes, it really is up to you to keep your babies alive..</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">Get stopped and mistreated? How much is your fault? Did you show respect? Were you forthcoming with info the officer needs to protect himself? Did you have an attitude because you were innocent? Was it really racial profiling or did you break a law and didn’t see the cop? Not to say it is always the driver’s fault, but I’ve seen a good number of videoed stops where I see nothing but disrespect toward the officer and then screaming when someone dies in a situation that did not need to happen. Sometimes it is the victim’s fault. Sometimes it’s the officer’s over-reaction. Sometimes it isn’t a black person, but you won’t likely see those videos. They don’t seem to be of interest.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">I will admit to laughing and being excited when he said he was running for President. Not because I thought he would be good, but because I looked forward to seeing him humbled by the rejection I was certain he would face once voting began. I was looking forward to seeing how he blamed stupid American’s for his loses. I never, ever thought he’d win one primary let alone now 15, I think. I am no longer entertained, I am frightened beyond description. I have listened to hours of his speeches. I have read everything I can find on how he is succeeding. I am baffled that my country is filled with such voters who will actually try to give him the power over our foreign relationships, the nuclear weapons, the healthcare, the tax department. This man disrespects women regularly, even at his campaign stops! He disrespects latinos and muslims…not some, not a lot, all of them. Fascist? Racist? Probably both, but add to that list war monger because he is all about “bombing them all; bombing the shit out of all of ‘em”. He insists you bomb the oil and the homes and you win. He’s all about winning. He is winning. He has such a following that I’m not sure anyone can stop him at this point from becoming the Republican candidate, but even worse, if he isn’t the Republican candidate, I believe he will run anyway. He is going to be President, in his mind, regardless and doesn’t really need the parties support. I’m not sure he’s wrong.</span></span></div>
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<span style="letter-spacing: 0.0px;"><span style="font-size: large;">I do believe with his ego, his mouth and his complete lack of class, which money cannot buy, he would bring the war to our shores in no time at all. He will piss off enough foreign leaders to bring bombs to us. I am petrified to think about how many of our allies will jump ship. Putin will be his friend and I don’t know what that might lead to. </span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: large;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">I don't know how I feel about any of this. Honestly. I am afraid of him. I am unsure of him. I am sometimes even in </span>agreement<span style="letter-spacing: 0px;"> with him. That scares me, too.</span></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Helvetica; font-size: large;"><span style="letter-spacing: 0px;">That's a little bit better...I mean writing things out does help. But I am so unsure about so many things right now, which does not make me mellow. I like mellow. I need to settle a few things, one way or the other.</span></span></div>
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